Co-created by Jane Whitlock, Catherine Thiemann, and Patty Brennan
How does your facility support residents and loved ones who are dying?
- How does your care change once residents are on hospice?
- How do staff members know which residents are on hospice?
- Do you educate residents and their families about end-of-life issues and the dying process? Who is responsible for this?
- How do you support grieving staff members? Who does this?
- How do you support residents after a death?
- Do you offer a send-off ritual after a resident’s death?
- Do you maintain a public memorial space?
- Do you educate residents and families on the realities of CPR for people with their health status? How many of your residents are “full code”?
- Do physicians and nurses routinely check POLST orders before doing CPR, tracheal tubes, feeding tubes, hospitalization, or other medical interventions? (NOTE: Medical caregivers are mandated to check orders by state regulations. Further, any changes in the patient’s condition may trigger a mandatory review and update of their POLST.)
- For patients on hospice, are staff members encouraged to call the hospice team when medical questions arise?
- Have you checked in with your hospice teams to learn what problems they typically encounter when coordinating with staff at your facility?
- Are comfort medications administered on schedule, PRN, or both?
How does the facility help healthy residents prepare for death?
- Do you have a “Living Well, Dying Well” discussion group for residents?
- Do you support residents in preparing Advance Directives?
How does the facility work with end-of-life doulas?
- Have you ever had an end-of-life doula on staff? What were the positives and negatives in the opinion of staff members?
- Did the board invite staff leaders’ thoughts about the need for an end-of-life doula?
- Do staff members support having an end-of-life doula on board?
- Are end-of-life doulas expected or encouraged to chart, work specific hours, or visit a certain number of residents per day?
- To what extent is the doula expected to be available outside of their regular hours?
- To what extent may the doula set their own work schedule and tasks?
- Are patients’ pain management orders shared with the doula?
- May the doula contact hospice directly if the patient shows symptoms of distress?
- May the doula communicate patient care needs with the patient’s nurse directly?
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About Patty Brennan
Patty is the owner and visionary force behind Lifespan Doulas. For 40+ years, she has been a doula, midwife, educator, author, nonprofit executive, and entrepreneur. Patty has personally trained over 3,500 people to become doulas. She is the author of "The Doula Business Guide: How to Succeed as a Birth, Postpartum or End-of-Life Doula," 4th Edition, and accompanying Workbook. In 2025, she published her most recent book, "Into the Fog: Navigating My Mother's Journey Through Dementia" which is both a memoir and guide for family caregivers.